english paper wad alrite today.i chose expository,heroes.its quite interesting to write about.but darn luh.i only wrote 2 for and 1 against.i had no time to carry on.but phew.lucky wad mr thompson tho works.hahah!my angel.but when it comes to P2.its frigging difficult.i felt like sleeping when i was reading the passage.its abt some astronut thingy.
maths paper 1 was nt easy today.i dunno why some of my friends could say it was easy.hmm.how confident.but i definitely not.=( underestimated P1.anw its P2 tmr.better get my beautiful butt to my beautiful books now.HHAA!
Monday, October 29, 2007
Friday, October 26, 2007
Dealing With Disappointment
Dealing With Disappointment
Someone once said, "No appointments, no disappointments."
We experience these somewhat similar emotions when we have created expectations concerning what we will receive from others, life or even from ourselves. We might also feel such emotions concerning our own abilities or efforts when we are unable to achieve the goals we desire.
We feel this way when things do not happen the way we expected, or more often, when others are not who we expected them to be. We develop expectations, and then feel cheated when we they are not fulfilled.
When we succumb to such feelings, we often give up making any further effort, which in turn obstructs our growth. In order to handle disappointment, we have to first understand that we are all in a process of evolution and that no one is perfect. It is unreasonable to expect or demand perfection from ourselves or others. We would not be here in this evolutionary process if we did not have much to improve.
Have faith in the flow of life. There is a wisdom greater than ours. Something drives the salmon upriver. Something unfurls the flowers at dawn and closes them in the evening. Something makes the crystals grow in almost perfect asymmetry. We don't yet fully understand what that something is, but there's no denying it's there. So instead of demanding results immediately, we need to learn that change, manifestation and creation are usually slow organic processes.
Now this is hard to do when faced with disappointment - having confidence that with patience, practice and perseverance, we can manifest the changes we seek. But it's crucial that we develop greater trust in our ability to manifest our goals and life purpose with or without the help of specific persons.
See how you can achieve greater self-sufficiency. When we are independent, we need less from others and will expect less from them. What are the gaps in your life you now require others to fill? How can you work towards filling them yourself?
Someone once said, "No appointments, no disappointments."
We experience these somewhat similar emotions when we have created expectations concerning what we will receive from others, life or even from ourselves. We might also feel such emotions concerning our own abilities or efforts when we are unable to achieve the goals we desire.
We feel this way when things do not happen the way we expected, or more often, when others are not who we expected them to be. We develop expectations, and then feel cheated when we they are not fulfilled.
When we succumb to such feelings, we often give up making any further effort, which in turn obstructs our growth. In order to handle disappointment, we have to first understand that we are all in a process of evolution and that no one is perfect. It is unreasonable to expect or demand perfection from ourselves or others. We would not be here in this evolutionary process if we did not have much to improve.
Have faith in the flow of life. There is a wisdom greater than ours. Something drives the salmon upriver. Something unfurls the flowers at dawn and closes them in the evening. Something makes the crystals grow in almost perfect asymmetry. We don't yet fully understand what that something is, but there's no denying it's there. So instead of demanding results immediately, we need to learn that change, manifestation and creation are usually slow organic processes.
Now this is hard to do when faced with disappointment - having confidence that with patience, practice and perseverance, we can manifest the changes we seek. But it's crucial that we develop greater trust in our ability to manifest our goals and life purpose with or without the help of specific persons.
See how you can achieve greater self-sufficiency. When we are independent, we need less from others and will expect less from them. What are the gaps in your life you now require others to fill? How can you work towards filling them yourself?
Thursday, October 25, 2007
geo paper .
sigh.tho its over,i'm deeply depressed now.i shldn't have asked how well my other friends did for the paper cuz its such a wrong decision.=( crying my hearts out.the moment i gt the paper, i flipped to the last page to check out the tourism and environmental qn.i was actually laughin at environmental qn 1.cuz its super easy.but the second qn din have much things to think of and i think the 3rd qn was diff so i moved on to tourism qn.the first two qns were alrite.but i din really apply wad mr thompson taught.not all!sigh!!i'm such a loser!am i dumb or wad?i really wondered.=(
why din i use the things that he taught,why?!anw manli definitely gonna do well for the paper.its so shitty!i'm gonna disappoint mr thompson.sigh.=( anw,when i'm done with the first two parts of the qn, the major qn was killing me.
"environmental demage from tourism outweighs the economic benefits.is it true for singapore?"i was like huh?! wad it bloody means? i kept reading thru over and over again and i din get wad the qn meant.so i just slam everything i noe in the paper.so much fer slamming my answers,i got it partially or more WRONG! my contents were partially right but my stand contradicts my contents.FUCK!it was a 12mark qns.sigh!am i dumb or wad?i really wondered.
its so shitty! i interpret the FREAKING qn wrongly!urgh!i'm so pissed and disappointed in myself.dumb dumb dumb!!!=((i doubt i can get a pass or better now.=(
i was so depressed that i cried when i got home.kinda lame.HA.why did i even ask ard.it kills my hope even more.i tot the bloody paper was easy.AHHH!who noes i wrote craps in der.so much for slamming my answers now.everyone wrote like 1page or less.i wrote more den 1page of CRAP!*crys.
if my O levels not gonna do well.i might consider retaking my o's.afterall,its not where you start,its where you end.=)and its kinda lame crying over spilt milk.so now i've to do well in my bloody Social studies.i noe i can do this! i cant let my geo pull me down.tho it did.but i must do well for my social studies.i must!!!=((*crys.
why din i use the things that he taught,why?!anw manli definitely gonna do well for the paper.its so shitty!i'm gonna disappoint mr thompson.sigh.=( anw,when i'm done with the first two parts of the qn, the major qn was killing me.
"environmental demage from tourism outweighs the economic benefits.is it true for singapore?"i was like huh?! wad it bloody means? i kept reading thru over and over again and i din get wad the qn meant.so i just slam everything i noe in the paper.so much fer slamming my answers,i got it partially or more WRONG! my contents were partially right but my stand contradicts my contents.FUCK!it was a 12mark qns.sigh!am i dumb or wad?i really wondered.
its so shitty! i interpret the FREAKING qn wrongly!urgh!i'm so pissed and disappointed in myself.dumb dumb dumb!!!=((i doubt i can get a pass or better now.=(
i was so depressed that i cried when i got home.kinda lame.HA.why did i even ask ard.it kills my hope even more.i tot the bloody paper was easy.AHHH!who noes i wrote craps in der.so much for slamming my answers now.everyone wrote like 1page or less.i wrote more den 1page of CRAP!*crys.
if my O levels not gonna do well.i might consider retaking my o's.afterall,its not where you start,its where you end.=)and its kinda lame crying over spilt milk.so now i've to do well in my bloody Social studies.i noe i can do this! i cant let my geo pull me down.tho it did.but i must do well for my social studies.i must!!!=((*crys.
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
o's chemistry paper 3 is over.
chemistry paper was pretty alrite fer me.but some of my friends said it was pretty easy.it worries me.cuz i might nt get a good grade.=( they will probably moderate the marks and i end up to be in the average band.but seriously speaking,the paper was really alrite.especially section B.i find it too easy and it seriously makes me worried because how can section B be easy?!gosh! and i got the section A,mass qn's answer wrong!urgh!it brought it further away from my A.=(nvm! i'll work harder on my physics.it should be easy peasy.yay!
Believe in Yourself
Believe in Yourself
To achieve any goal in life, you must believe you are going to be successful. This conviction gives you the strength and resilience needed to achieve your objective. It also helps you to actively seek and recognise opportunities and stepping stones.
So how can you develop a powerful sense of self-belief?
Before you begin any endeavour, you should be confident that the end result is possible. Don't focus on whether it's been done before or not. Don't listen to others who might be feeding you with negative thoughts. Be clear in your own mind that the goal can be achieved.
More crucially, believe that the end result is possible by you. We often hold limiting beliefs about our own ability to achieve goals. We may believe the goal is possible, but we often don't think it's possible for us to achieve it. So identify those beliefs that are holding you back and take time to address them.
Now that you know you can achieve your objective, how much do you want it? The more we want to achieve a goal, the bigger the hurdles we'll jump over to get there. So choose a goal you really want; take the time to ask yourself why you want it and how badly you want it. What are the values underlying that goal? Is it a desire to help people? A yearning to be your own boss? Or is it to do something that allows you to spend more time with your children?
Next you have to believe that you deserve the end result. Hidden under the surface in many people is a belief that they do not deserve to succeed. Because of some deep-rooted experience that caused their self-esteem to decline, these people often choose to remain where they are, or even slide, because they feel that they are not worthy of success and happiness. When they try to take action, this belief restricts them, they lose motivation, and fail. But always remember that if you work consistently toward your goal, you deserve all the success you get.
Also, achieving your goal should not contradict any other beliefs or values you have. For example, if you believe strongly that rich people are greedy, you'll probably not be motivated enough to build a successful business. Try aligning your goals with your values. An entrepreneur perhaps could work towards making a lot of money so that he can use part of that money to help the needy.
Believing in yourself and your ability to achieve your goals is the first step towards building a better future for yourself.
To achieve any goal in life, you must believe you are going to be successful. This conviction gives you the strength and resilience needed to achieve your objective. It also helps you to actively seek and recognise opportunities and stepping stones.
So how can you develop a powerful sense of self-belief?
Before you begin any endeavour, you should be confident that the end result is possible. Don't focus on whether it's been done before or not. Don't listen to others who might be feeding you with negative thoughts. Be clear in your own mind that the goal can be achieved.
More crucially, believe that the end result is possible by you. We often hold limiting beliefs about our own ability to achieve goals. We may believe the goal is possible, but we often don't think it's possible for us to achieve it. So identify those beliefs that are holding you back and take time to address them.
Now that you know you can achieve your objective, how much do you want it? The more we want to achieve a goal, the bigger the hurdles we'll jump over to get there. So choose a goal you really want; take the time to ask yourself why you want it and how badly you want it. What are the values underlying that goal? Is it a desire to help people? A yearning to be your own boss? Or is it to do something that allows you to spend more time with your children?
Next you have to believe that you deserve the end result. Hidden under the surface in many people is a belief that they do not deserve to succeed. Because of some deep-rooted experience that caused their self-esteem to decline, these people often choose to remain where they are, or even slide, because they feel that they are not worthy of success and happiness. When they try to take action, this belief restricts them, they lose motivation, and fail. But always remember that if you work consistently toward your goal, you deserve all the success you get.
Also, achieving your goal should not contradict any other beliefs or values you have. For example, if you believe strongly that rich people are greedy, you'll probably not be motivated enough to build a successful business. Try aligning your goals with your values. An entrepreneur perhaps could work towards making a lot of money so that he can use part of that money to help the needy.
Believing in yourself and your ability to achieve your goals is the first step towards building a better future for yourself.
Thursday, October 18, 2007
science practical.o levels
hello blog.just came back from the o levels science practical.gosh!i must thank the lord and also god fer helping me during the science practical.thankyou for the luck.=)and also peter mark thompson.(my angel).chemistry's science practical was so difficult,the moment i flip to the chemistry page,i was like huh?! i din even understand wad the instructions meant.why do they wanna put test-tube and hard-glass test-tube to confuse students?so i tot the hard-glass test tube was the boiling tube so i put the solid Q into the boiling tube and the pipette din fit into the boiling tube and another tube which had calcium hydroxide.and i tot the pipette is the droplet.so i gt a little confuse with the instructions and i took the droplet and suck the gas from the boiling tube into the calcium hydroxide.i was wondering why the experiment is so weird.why i din get any ppt.lucky i was smart enuff.haha! i changed the boiling tube to a small 1 so that the pipette can fit exactly the size of it.thank god i had my salt.hah!its zinc carbonate.phew!i was so lucky that i had read that page on appearance of solid just the nite before.phew!
den after once we were release from the lab.ohoh.1more thing,the lab is FISHING hot!i was sweating while i was doing my experiment.wahlao!haha.so annoying.den after that we had to be quarantine in the hall fer like an hour.most of my friends din get the answer salt and some of them din had the time to finish.gosh!thats really sad.hopefully the markers will lower the percentage or somethng.
den after once we were release from the lab.ohoh.1more thing,the lab is FISHING hot!i was sweating while i was doing my experiment.wahlao!haha.so annoying.den after that we had to be quarantine in the hall fer like an hour.most of my friends din get the answer salt and some of them din had the time to finish.gosh!thats really sad.hopefully the markers will lower the percentage or somethng.
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
you an extroverted or introverted girl?
You Are An Intro-Extrovert! |
 Sometimes you're social - sometimes you're shy You've got a bit of an Introvert / Extrovert split going on You enjoy all sorts of situations. Parties, small groups, and alone time. Too much of one, and you'll long for the other. You need variety! Chances are, you've got both serious and fun friends - and they don't get along. |
hoho!i din think that it will be so true.
what's my personality type?
You Are An ENFP |
 The Inspirer You love being around people, and you are deeply committed to your friends. You are also unconventional, irreverent, and unimpressed by authority and rules. Incredibly perceptive, you can usually sense if someone has hidden motives. You use lots of colorful language and expressions. You're quite the storyteller! In love, you are quite the charmer. And you are definitely willing to risk your heart. You often don't follow through with your flirting or professed feelings. And you do break a lot of hearts. At work, you are driven but not a workaholic. You just always seem to enjoy what you do. You would make an excellent entrepreneur, politician, or journalist. How you see yourself: compassionate, unselfish, and understanding When other people don't get you, they see you as: gushy, emotional, and unfocused |
Saturday, October 06, 2007
o's nearing
MERINA
creative, versatile and imaginative you appreciate beauty in all forms. You have great inner strength and courage and have the ability to accept large responsibilities or challenging situations with patience and humility. Others admire these qualities and follow your lead. You are honest, discerning and self-disciplined and need to have a peaceful environment. Putting others before self your talents are used to make life better for everyone.
LOL.wad a nice name i have.
anw,o's fishing nearing! like 16more days nt including practical and i've gt loads to revise on.S***
MUST PRESERVER,O'S WIll END SOON ENOUGH.
I LOVE TO STUDY!! YEAH!!especially DNT,HUMANITIES and AMTHS.!woohoo!!this year is the last year to touch on those notes,textbooks every single day.i'm sure gonna miss it.=D
screw you o levels.=D
anw,i miss the torture that i had during track and field trgs.DAMN!i want to get tortured with TOUGH TRAININGS again!=D might be thinking that i'm insane but WHOCARES? i'm so gonna join tennis when i enter poly and get tortured with the intensive runnings and hitting the tennis ball.HAHAHA.torture,wait fer me.
oh.its time fer mugging again.YAYNESS.=DD
creative, versatile and imaginative you appreciate beauty in all forms. You have great inner strength and courage and have the ability to accept large responsibilities or challenging situations with patience and humility. Others admire these qualities and follow your lead. You are honest, discerning and self-disciplined and need to have a peaceful environment. Putting others before self your talents are used to make life better for everyone.
LOL.wad a nice name i have.
anw,o's fishing nearing! like 16more days nt including practical and i've gt loads to revise on.S***
MUST PRESERVER,O'S WIll END SOON ENOUGH.
I LOVE TO STUDY!! YEAH!!especially DNT,HUMANITIES and AMTHS.!woohoo!!this year is the last year to touch on those notes,textbooks every single day.i'm sure gonna miss it.=D
screw you o levels.=D
anw,i miss the torture that i had during track and field trgs.DAMN!i want to get tortured with TOUGH TRAININGS again!=D might be thinking that i'm insane but WHOCARES? i'm so gonna join tennis when i enter poly and get tortured with the intensive runnings and hitting the tennis ball.HAHAHA.torture,wait fer me.
oh.its time fer mugging again.YAYNESS.=DD
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